“When humiliated, individuals and groups seem to have a particular appetite for revenge. The self, it is feared, will never be the same unless such injustice is appropriately addressed.
What is needed subsequent to an offense is a deeply meant apology, evidenced by signs that the perpetrator feels ashamed of his acts, and followed by actual compensatory gestures and behaviors indicating that such acts will not be repeated…. The only caution is that paranoid groups may not expect or accept forgiveness; it may not be enough to overcome the dualistic, apocalyptic, paranoid ideologies for such absolutist thinkers.
Because forgiveness is the biggest factor preventing aggressive retaliation, it is important to note that incomplete forgiveness, or pseudo-forgiveness, may be worthless at best and dangerous at worst. The more victims can identify with the type of offense on the basis of having committed similar offenses in the past, the easier it will be to forgive the offender.”
If there is any hope to be found in the moral black hole that the Syria conflict has become, it is in the reality there are no innocent parties among the regional powers. Whether deliberately or inadvertently, whether driven by aggressive designs or flawed utilitarian moral calculations, all sides have contributed immensely to the suffering of the Syrian people. Iran, for much of the 20th century subject to foreign machinations, has finally descended to the same moral depths in Syria that it has deplored the United States for. Israel, with U.S. support, is doing in slow motion to the Palestinians what Iran aspires to do to Israel. More bloodshed is undoubtedly ahead. The question is how much of it will Americans, Israelis, and Iranians tolerate before they compel their respective policymakers to change course.a global affairs media network
Effective Engagement with Iran Requires Looking Beyond Its Ideology
December 21, 2017
“When humiliated, individuals and groups seem to have a particular appetite for revenge. The self, it is feared, will never be the same unless such injustice is appropriately addressed.
What is needed subsequent to an offense is a deeply meant apology, evidenced by signs that the perpetrator feels ashamed of his acts, and followed by actual compensatory gestures and behaviors indicating that such acts will not be repeated…. The only caution is that paranoid groups may not expect or accept forgiveness; it may not be enough to overcome the dualistic, apocalyptic, paranoid ideologies for such absolutist thinkers.
Because forgiveness is the biggest factor preventing aggressive retaliation, it is important to note that incomplete forgiveness, or pseudo-forgiveness, may be worthless at best and dangerous at worst. The more victims can identify with the type of offense on the basis of having committed similar offenses in the past, the easier it will be to forgive the offender.”
If there is any hope to be found in the moral black hole that the Syria conflict has become, it is in the reality there are no innocent parties among the regional powers. Whether deliberately or inadvertently, whether driven by aggressive designs or flawed utilitarian moral calculations, all sides have contributed immensely to the suffering of the Syrian people. Iran, for much of the 20th century subject to foreign machinations, has finally descended to the same moral depths in Syria that it has deplored the United States for. Israel, with U.S. support, is doing in slow motion to the Palestinians what Iran aspires to do to Israel. More bloodshed is undoubtedly ahead. The question is how much of it will Americans, Israelis, and Iranians tolerate before they compel their respective policymakers to change course.